Seeing
She had no business barging into a Pharisee’s house, let alone bothering his honored guest. She was simply so overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude that social appropriateness was her last concern.  She had already suffered enough shame that a little more wasn’t going to hurt, certainly not in this case.

Simon, the Pharisee, and his guests squirmed at the sight and sound of this woman sobbing uncontrollably, drenching his feet with her tears and wiping them with her hair.  We can understand their discomfort at a very strange situation.  But most disconcerting was the fact that Jesus Himself didn’t seem to mind.  What kind of prophet was this, to allow such a woman touch him so inappropriately? It was a teaching moment; a chance to explain to a Pharisee what God is really after.  Jesus sets up a simple parable of a lender who forgives two debts, one large and small.  Which debtor will respond with more love and gratitude?  Simon took the point.   “I suppose the one who was forgiven more.”  But Jesus wasn’t finished.  Turning His full attention to the woman, He asked Simon a far more pointed question.   “Do you see this woman?” Hundreds of thousands of women in Thailand are trapped in its huge sex industry.  “Toi” is a virtual orphan.  Her mother died when she was a toddler and her father left home to become a Buddhist monk.  With two children from a deadbeat father, and only a sixth grade education, Toi felt she had no other choice but to work as a prostitute. “Am” has 4 children from two different fathers.  The first is in jail for drug dealing, the second died last year.  Her drug-addicted mom pressures her for money, even with so many children.  On top of that, her younger sister also went to prison for drugs, leaving behind a small daughter for Am to take care of.  With so many children crying for food, Am made the difficult decision to work as a prostitute. “Plah”, 25, recently finished a nine-month jail term for a violent offense—she attacked a former boyfriend, probably high on amphetamines.  Prior to that she had spent eight years working as a dancer in Bangkok bars, and in and out of jail on drug charges.  She has two children from two different past relationships. “Do you see this woman?”  Prostitution makes people, including Christians, squirm and flee.  Certainly part of that is for good reason—it is an ugly and dangerous business.  But there is also a bit of Pharisee in all of us, judging sinful behavior without concern for the heart. Yet when we pause to look deeper into the eyes of the prostitute, we see an image of the living God dying for lack of love, often hopeless, driven to such a life out of desperation. My wife and I moved to Bangkok last year because God showed us this very picture.  We felt deep compassion, knowing how many were trapped in this life.  Yet even so, when we first began meeting some of the women working in Bangkok’s hundreds of bars we were as nervous as anyone might be.  But we quickly found them very ready to respond to our desire for friendship.  Perhaps they know the game of false love so well that they recognize the real thing far quicker than most, and value it more.  Some, like Am and Plah, have come to know Jesus, left the industry for good and are now in a work-study discipleship program begun by our ministry.  Others like Toi are still in the business, but we consider them to be dear friends.  Toi calls us “Mama” and “Papa”. “Do you see this woman?”  She was a sinner, Simon was right about that.  She had made choices.  Indeed, the majority of the women we meet also know they are responsible, that even their tough circumstances do not justify compromising themselves and the men they serve.  But that guilt only adds to their bondage.  “I am no good because I do this,” we have been told.  In fact, some see this life as all they are good for. How many sinners go unreached because Christians do not really see their hearts?  We see their behavior and back away uncomfortably, oblivious to the deep desire for love and significance that drives them to sin in the first place.  The world is a cruel place, and adorable but mistreated girls and boys grow up to be prostitutes and drug dealers.  Most of these have never had someone let them know they are important apart from feminine seductiveness or male toughness.  So love-starved they are that when someone finally does look them in the eye and show that they are truly valued, even the toughest or most seductive exterior can melt completely away. That woman at Simon’s house gave Jesus an amazing gift of love.  Similar gifts await those who will follow Jesus in showing His forgiveness to those who don’t even know what forgiveness is.  You don’t have to feel like a gifted evangelist.  We sure don’t feel like we know what we’re doing, but we do know that any Christian can love, can show someone his or her unconditional value to God.  All we need to do is open our eyes.